Tuesday, 17 November 2015

KID KLASSICS - THE TRUE-LIFE TALE OF NICKY HUNT...


Me in Saint Andrew's Road in Southsea, Portsmouth, 1978

Reading about cartoonist LEE JAMES TURNOCK's comic
character, NICKY HUNT, reminded me of a real-life inveterate
'fantasist' (by which I mean liar) who used to pal about with me from
1965 until he joined the Navy shortly after his dad died in 1977.  We
remained friends until 1981, when I concluded that he obviously
had mental health issues and finally severed all ties with him.

I last saw him in Gosport near the end of April '81 when I was
living nearby, and it was then I realized he was no longer the per-
son I thought he was - if indeed he ever had been.  This man simply
couldn't open his gob without a monumental, unbelievable 'porky-pie'
popping out.  For example, even before he joined the Navy he used to
wear an over-sized diver's watch, and when a friend (RONNIE ROSS,
now sadly deceased) asked him what it was, he replied that it was an
atomic power-pack for his bionic arm.  (This was around '76/'77,
when the SIX MILLION DOLLAR MAN was still on TV.)

Had it been an 'off-the-cuff' remark intended as a joke, that
would've been fine.  However, in between starting and finishing the
sentence, he'd somehow managed to convince himself it was true and
fully expected to be believed.  Another example (on a flying visit to our
house in December of 1980) came when my father asked him if he had
any kids yet.  (He'd got wed in Portsmouth Registry Office two years
before, and I'd been best man.)  "No," he said, "I caught an infection
from a toilet seat and they had to cut my tubes.  They operated
through my back passage so as not to leave a scar."

To the best of my knowledge, those 'in-the-know' say that in-
fections can't be caught from toilet seats (at least, not the kind which
affect internal organs) so his claim couldn't be true.  However, why the
bit about back-door surgery?  It's unlikely that anyone would ask to see
his scar so why say that if it wasn't true?  Then I realized - as a Navy man,
he shared showers and quarters with others, so he'd need a 'cover-story'
to explain his obvious scar-free condition when he first told his bizarre
tale.  A normal person would simply have said that he didn't want
kids until he left the Navy, not produced a fantastic fable that
defied accepted medical facts.  Not so 'BILLY LIAR'.

His lying was no recent development, but stretched all the
way back to childhood, as this 1966/'67 account illustrates.  One
morning in the school playground, myself, 'Billy Liar' and a fellow
called ROBERT (or ROBINGOLDIE were standing in line, waiting
for the bell to ring to gain access to the building.  Robert was holding an
ACTION MAN and opened the jacket to show us AM's dog-tag.  Action
Man (or GI JOE to U.S. readers) had a rather 'stylised' musculature with
a bit of a gap between his pecs.  My brother owned a TOMMY GUNN
action-figure with a more realistic physique, so I remarked on how odd
Action Man's torso was by comparison.  "That was his sister who did
that - she's got really sharp nails!" volunteered 'Billy', ignoring the
fact that Robert's sister would've had to be SUPERGIRL
to make a dent in such hard plastic.

Regular readers may recall a previous post in which I men-
tioned a pupil who came into school one morning with a tracing
of RUMPELSTILTSKIN (from a class reading book) on a piece
of IZAL toilet paper, claiming he'd drawn it the night before.   (Al-
though when the sheet was placed over the book illustration and
the fraud exposed, he then said it was the work of his sister.)
Yes, you've guessed it - it was the very same guy.

For almost as long as I'd known him he'd been plagued by
cartilage problems in one of his knees.  This meant that not long
after joining the Navy it was discovered that he wasn't fit for active
duty.  So he was given a choice - either leave the Navy or take up a
'landlubber' position at Haslar Hospital in Gosport.  (He invented a
tale which attributed his long-term problem to getting his knee caught
between two practice mines while on a training exercise.)  According
to him his new job was that of 'medical assistant' (nurse), but in all
likelihood he was a hospital porter.  Not for long 'though, as
two or three years later he was back in civvy-street.

In 1981 I'd returned to Portsmouth - at his invitation - only
to find that he steered clear of me and never came to visit - apart
from one time when I saw him on his moped coming from the direc-
tion of my bed-sit while I was returning from the shops.  I hailed him,
but he stopped for only just long enough to tell me he'd no time to talk -
then he was off again.  He was only about two minutes away from my
place and two minutes away from his base (by bike), so I wondered
why he'd gone out of his way if he'd no intention of stopping.  When
I got back, my landlady revealed to me that he'd only been
checking-up to see if I'd returned to Scotland yet.

Me in my room in Boulton Road, Southsea, 1981.
Yes, I know - it looks like a Crimewatch photo

Obviously he was worried that the longer I was around, the
greater the chance I'd eventually meet some of his newer friends
and perhaps inadvertently blow the gaff about some of the 'tall tales'
he'd spun.  After all, this was a guy who, with crash helmet tucked
under his arm, used to visit bars that bikers hung out in - even
before he had a motorbike.  (No joking.)  

Months later, when I finally returned home, my father told
me that while I was in Portsmouth, 'Billy' had 'phoned one night
with a curious request.  "Mr. Robson, I was in a bar the other night
having a drink, and I told a guy I was talking to that I'm a Lieutenant
Colonel in the Royal Navy."  (This was when he was a porter in Gosport's
Haslar Hospital.)  "He didn't believe me, so I gave him your number and
told him to 'phone you and you'd confirm it.  If he does call, could you
back me up?"  Naturally, my father told him not to be so daft.  "Go on -
a favour for a favour," pleaded the deluded 'Billy'.  My father enquired
what he meant.  "I visited Gordon the other day and it cost me money
for petrol for my bike," quoth Mr. Mental, referring to his lightning-
quick dash to check if I was still around.  When I heard this, I
gave my parents strict instructions that, if 'Billy' ever
'phoned, I was out - even if I was in.

About six or seven years later, the 'phone (then in the hall-
way) rang and the answer-machine clicked on.  As I stood at the
top of the stairs to hear who it was, an unfamiliar voice emanated
from the speaker - a Detective Inspector someone (couldn't make
out the name) wanting to talk to me.  I went downstairs and picked up
the 'phone - "Hello?" I said.  "What's the matter, don't you recognize an
old friend?"  The voice had changed, being that strange hybrid accent
that many 'Jocks' acquire from spending years down south, so at first
I didn't recognize it.  Then the penny dropped and I hung up without
replying.  The 'phone rang again and his voice from the speaker said:
"I'll use my warrant card if that's what it takes to talk to you!"
Poor, deluded fool.  He was never in the police - I checked,
even 'though it was a racing cert that he wasn't.

It seems that Leopards can't change their spots.  Egged on
by a pal who'd also known 'Billy' we both looked at his Facebook
page about a year ago.  According to him he's a Falklands war veteran
who was fast-tracked through the ranks of the Royal Navy, is thinking
of taking a course in astro-physics (or something equally far-fetched),
was taught to cook by both GORDON RAMSAY and JAMIE OLIVER,
has hacked into NASA satellites to take photographs of outer space (with
a clearly-cribbed pic from the internet), had a successful career as a world-
class photographer (although his webpage is conspicuously absent of any
evidence which would indicate it), and is a personal buddy of BILLY
CONNOLLY and folk-singer RALPH McTELL, who he claims to
have known since the age of twelve.  Oh, and he learned to scuba-
dive at the age of nine.  (Which was all news to me - and I'd
known him from when he was six.)

Right, altogether now - "JACKANORY, JACKANORY,
JACKANORY".  Needless to say, we both fell about laughing at
this catalogue of absurdity.  Unfortunately 'though, there was a sad
side to his inabiltiy to grasp reality, and let me wind up this over-
long reminiscence by revealing what that was.

As I previously said, I was best man at this fantasy merchant's
wedding in 1978, but I had gone down to Portsmouth a few days
in advance of the 'big day'.  The morning before the ceremony, while
he was out somewhere, his fiancee broke down in tears and confessed
to me that she was now having severe doubts about going through with it.
Her brother and her friends considered him a complete weirdo and had
expressed concern over his alarming propensity to tell the most outra-
geous lies at the drop of a hat.  What was I to do?  What I should've
done was tell her that I didn't think he was mature enough to get
married and had been telling porkies for as long as I had
known him so was therefore unlikely to change.

However, I was faced with a dilemma.  If she called off the
wedding as a result of anything I said, I'd then be the bad guy.  I
knew that he'd continue to pursue her and woo her after I'd gone
home, and probably persuade her (against her better judgement) into
marrying him, and I'd then be excluded from the celebrations and most
likely be a pal short as a result.  So I chickened out, telling her that I'd
have a very serious talk with him and explain that all his lies had to stop;
that he was about to embark on a wonderful new chapter in his life which
he should take extremely seriously and stop embarrassing both himself
and his beloved with his absurd fabrications and fantasies.  So I did -
at great length and in excruciating detail (as is my wont).  At the
conclusion of my sonorous oration he soberly assured me
that he was 'indeed an altered Toad'.

He was lying of course.

On the day of the wedding, when the registrar asked her if
she took this man as her lawful wedded husband, there was a long,
long pause.  Then, with tears streaming down her face, she hesitantly
said "I do" and thereby made one of the worst decisions of her life.  A
decision that I could probably have prevented - and to this day am filled
with regret that I didn't at least try to.  The marriage lasted a couple of
years or so and the poor woman went through hell.  I hope she's happy
now and, should she ever get to read this, can forgive me for my
inaction.  I last saw her around August or September 1980
when they were both up on a brief visit.

So there you have it.  Trust me, Nicky Hunt's nowhere
near as bad as the guy I've just been telling you about.  He's
certainly a lot funnier 'though. 

14 comments:

B Smith said...

I'd love to leave a longer response to your post, but the Australian secret intelligence agency has asked me to head to a meeting in Paris to formulate responses to the weekend's events (good thing I'd just finished that course in multilingual bomb disposal - the one that James Cameron insist I take last time I was doing some script doctoring for him).

Kid said...

Funnily enough, BS, the reason I had to make do with republishing an old post is because I'm currently engaged in trials of a super-soldier serum I invented. Along with super-strength, super-speed and invulnerability, it bestows invisibility - which makes typing difficult when you can't see your own fingers.

Paul McScotty -Muir said...

Poor guy he obviously has a serious problem that is above the "normal" fibbing to make yourself feel better type of thing - I had a pal that used to come up with some really daft stories ( you know I was in a band we nearly go signed to RCA – he couldn’t play any instrument or sing – he could drive but when I asked him to drive me home in my car one day the excuses came out – thank goodness in that case) he was nothing like this guy though but I really found him quite tiring after a while . Luckily for me he moved up North so I took that opportunity to stop contact with him.

The getting a disease from a toilet seat was a story that doctors put out in the early 20th century to make it easier for folk to seek treatment for VD etc (ie “I must have gotten it from a toilet seat doc, honest”) seemingly it worked and the myth has stuck that you can get this type of thing from a toilet set (you can’t of course, unless perhaps, you licked it!!!) .

Kid said...

What eventually became tiresome for me, McS, was that his lies became (probably always were, in fact, but they seemed amusing when I was younger) so blatantly ridiculous as to be an insult to people's intelligence. When someone apparently thinks that you're so stupid as to swallow absurdity, then it's time to say goodbye. On his Facebook page, he says he can no longer play his guitar (on doctor's orders) because of a heart condition, but then says he's taken up the flute, Now slap me gently and call me Cuthbert, but surely blowing into a wind instrument requires more effort than strumming a guitar? He never could play it, incidentally, merely strum and hum at the same time. Honestly, if there's a bigger fantasy merchant alive, I'd be mightily surprised.

Colin Jones said...

I had a friend who was in the army from 1978-81 (I met him in 1988) and he was obsessed with everybody knowing he'd been in the army - he seemed to think we should all bow down to him eternally because he was an ex-soldier. He had photos of his army days on the walls and his one medal on display (it was for a 6 month tour of duty in Ulster). But that one medal wasn't good enough so he bought some second hand medals and put them on display pretending he'd won them !! He also phoned me up one time and told me that somebody we both knew had died which, like a chump, I believed. Bizarrely this friend of ours did indeed die two years later. But eventually I started to take anything he said with a pinch of salt. We had a falling out in December 2000 and I haven't seen him since - but I still send him a Christmas card every year because I'm nice :) Kid, this post is the kind of thing you'd put on MMMM so have you abandoned that blog ? I've been wondering for a while why you don't just put those posts on here as Kid Klassics and then you'd get more comments than just from me - as you have on this occasion.

Kid said...

You're too nice, CJ - I'd tell him to sling his hook. Liars steal your time and attention when it could be better spent elsewhere. Haven't abandoned MMMM, but I originally created it to give the non-comics related posts on Crivens a wider audience, but I don't think there's too many left, so I'll have to start writing new ones. And some of the posts on MMMM have appeared as Klassics here as well, so it's the best of both worlds.

Phil said...

Makes me think of an old friend. He was a rough sort but I knew him. Apparently he grew up short and smoked and I never saw him again after we moved. I believe he was a Chelsea fan. I strongly suspect he didn't have a good life but you never know.

Kid said...

Do you keep in touch with any of your old friends in Britain, Phil, or are they all now just distant memories?

Phil said...

My best friend I still keep in touch via FB. Personally it's interesting to see the politics of some of my old friends. We went to the same schools yet ended up on different spectrums.
The most useful skill I learnt at school was how to fence....ok so it's not very useful.

Kid said...

You never know - it might prove very useful if you ever have to fight Zorro.

DeadSpiderEye said...

Lies are so much more interesting than reality, I could regale on last night's trip to the restaurant where I dined on lark's tongues and truffles instead of supping alone on pease soup again. I don't think I've ever encountered a case quite so startling as this although the point about him believing his own tales is something I have observed. Playing pool once with a person who missed an easy shot then nudged the table, in full view everyone to sink the ball and he seemed genuinely shocked when no one would play with him.

What I find interesting, is not the lies themselves but the acquiescence of third parties to the deception. I'm not sure if that's a product of the awkwardness that might arise from calling offenders out or maybe something more complex, to do with social interaction. I notice that in certain relationships, deception is overlooked, mothers with their sons for instance. Also individual status within a social context seems to play a role, the truth behind personal conflicts between people in certain discrete contexts seems to be irrelevant in relation to the status of the opponents in that context. I've gotta go now Mai Ling wants me to look at the proofs of the photos from her latest modelling assignment in Milan.


Kid said...

One of the biggest 'lies' is by men who wear dodgy toupees which are obvious to everyone. I'm always amazed at how their wives collude in the would-be deception by not being too embarrassed to be seen out with them - especially as most wigs look like a fur glove perched on top of the scalp. As regards other lies, I think that married couples turn a blind eye to the lies they know their spouses tell them, simply for a bit of peace.

DeadSpiderEye said...

That raises an interesting point, if something is obviously false is it really a lie? No one is deceived by a rug on balanced on a noggin, I'm pretty sure you didn't buy that stuff about Mai Ling either, obviously it's patent fantasy--it's Madrid not Milan. Interestingly, someone I know retouched his bald spot when a photographer caught the back of his head. He did it really badly in Photoshop, I considered ribbing him about it but thought better of it, you know vanity an' all. Thing is, he plastered it all over Facebook, so everyone's seen it.

Kid said...

Well, someone with a wig is trying to give the impression of something that isn't true, so that qualifies it as a lie, whether it's an obvious 'falsehood' or not. And I completely believed that stuff about Mai Ling. (Or did I?)

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